Guide to Stones & Crystals
Every stone in this guide made it into a Ramble & Riot piece because it does something — not just because it's pretty. Below is the full rundown: what each stone's supposed to do, how to cleanse it, how to charge it, and how to actually set an intention into it instead of just wearing it and hoping. Skip to the FAQ at the bottom if you just want the fast answers.
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Metaphysical Properties: A Natural Tranquilizer. It relieves stress, balances mood swings, and "opens" the Third Eye for intuition and spiritual connection.
Beliefs: The name means "not intoxicated." It has been used for centuries to prevent overindulgence and to protect against "bad luck" or dark thoughts during sleep.
Ancient Egypt mined its own amethyst at Wadi el-Hudi starting in the Middle Kingdom (roughly 2000–1650 BCE), carving it into scarabs and jewelry for nobility.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Running Water.
Charging: Moonlight/Starlight. Never leave in the sun, or it will turn clear/gray.
Wear It:
If Amethyst is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: A stone of motivation and follow-through — worked with for turning an idea into action instead of just thinking about it. Tied to clarity and honest self-expression, and to a sense of humor about appearances: it spent two centuries successfully posing as other gems before anyone caught on.
Beliefs: Named in 1786 by German geologist Abraham Werner, from the Greek apate — deceit — because Apatite had been mistaken for aquamarine, peridot, and tourmaline for so long that it needed a name of its own just to stop the confusion. It shows up in more colors than almost any other gem mineral, which is exactly what made it such a convincing impostor.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: No prolonged soaking. Apatite sits at a soft 5 on the Mohs scale and can dull with harsh handling. Use Selenite plates or smoke instead.
Charging: Sunlight, briefly — fitting for a stone this electric. Keep it from long hours of direct heat.
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Metaphysical Properties: Known as the "Stone of Motivation," Carnelian ignites your inner fire and restores lost vitality. It stimulates creativity and courage, helping you overcome procrastination and take bold action with a renewed sense of confidence and zest for life.
Beliefs: Associated with the Sacral Chakra. Ancient Egyptians called this gem "the setting sun" and believed it offered protection in the afterlife, while Roman warriors wore it to grant them courage and physical strength in battle.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Water Safe. You can rinse this stone in warm running water, or use Smoke (Sage or Palo Santo) to clear stagnant energy.
Charging: Best charged under the warm rays of the sun to amplify its fiery, solar energy (limit exposure to one hour to prevent fading), or by burying it in the earth.
Wear It:
If Carnelian is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties:
A stone of gentle expression. Chrysocolla is associated with the throat, but it is not the stone of the raised voice — it governs truth spoken calmly, the thing said once and said properly. It is called on for teaching, for hard conversations, and for the courage to say the quiet true thing rather than the loud approximate one.
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The name is Greek — chrysos, gold, and kolla, glue — recorded by Theophrastus around 315 BC, because ancient goldsmiths used the mineral as a flux for soldering gold. It is a stone named after metalwork. Copper-born, it forms alongside malachite, azurite and turquoise wherever copper weathers, and it has been mistaken for turquoise for as long as both have been dug.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: No Water. Chrysocolla is soft and often stabilised with resin to make it wearable — soaking can dull the surface and attack the resin both. Use dry smoke or a selenite plate.
Charging: Moonlight. Keep it away from heat and from long hours of direct sun; this is a copper mineral that prefers cool and dark to bright and dry.
Wear It:
If Chrysocolla is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: A stone of Grace and Compassion. It is excellent for healing a "broken heart" or the "inner child." It promotes optimism and helps you avoid speaking in anger.
Beliefs: Alexander the Great famously wore it for victory. It is believed to bring "Divine Truth" into the heart, allowing you to let go of old ego-based patterns.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Cool Water.
Charging: Moonlight Only. Keep it away from heat and sun, as it can dehydrate and turn white.
Wear It:
If Chrysoprase is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: Known as a "soother of the soul," Denim Lapis helps bridge the gap between your thoughts and your voice. It promotes self-awareness and helps you speak your mind with a consistent, calm confidence rather than intensity.
Beliefs: Associated with the Throat Chakra. Ancient cultures believed this lighter version of Lapis helped quiet a busy mind and promoted emotional purity, making it a favorite for those who struggle with "over-talking" or anxiety.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Avoid Water. Use Sound (singing bowls) or Smoke (Sandalwood).
Charging: Best charged under a Full Moon to keep its soft blue hue from fading.
Wear It:
If Denim Lapis is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: The stone of Mental Order and Focus. It clears "brain fog" and psychic manipulation. It is the best stone to have on your desk during exams or complex projects.
Beliefs: Believed to be a "psychic vacuum cleaner," it is said to absorb and neutralize all negative vibrations from your environment, including EMF stress from computers.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Smoke or Selenite. It is too soft for water.
Charging: Moonlight. Sun will bleach the vibrant purples and greens.
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Metaphysical Properties:
The armour stone. Hematite is worked with for grounding and for boundaries — deflecting what isn't yours to carry, and staying in your own body when things get loud. It is heavy in the hand, and that weight is most of why people find it steadying.
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The name comes from the Greek haima, blood — not for how it looks polished, which is closer to gunmetal, but for what it does when you grind it. Hematite leaves a red streak, and powdered hematite is red ochre: the pigment of the oldest paintings human beings have left behind, tens of thousands of years old. Long before it was jewelry it was how we drew.
One honest note, because it comes up constantly: if a hematite bead snaps firmly onto a magnet, it almost certainly isn't hematite. The strongly magnetic beads sold everywhere as "magnetic hematite" are usually hematine, a synthetic ferrite engineered to look the part. Natural hematite is at most weakly attracted to a magnet.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: No Water. It is iron oxide, and prolonged damp will dull that mirror polish. A dry cloth and smoke.
Charging: Earth. Set it on stone or bury it briefly — it is an ore, and it came from there.
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Metaphysical Properties: The ultimate stone for Abundance and Luck. It brings harmony to the Heart Chakra, stabilizes the personality, and integrates the mind with the body.
Beliefs: In many cultures, Jade is a symbol of nobility and immortality. It is often gifted to newborns or business owners as a talisman for long life and consistent prosperity.
Jade held equal or greater reverence across the ocean in Mesoamerica — the Olmec, Maya, and later Aztec civilizations valued it above gold, carving it into funerary masks (including the Maya ruler Pakal's famous burial mask) and ceremonial celts from roughly 1200 BCE through the Aztec era.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Running Water. It is very tough and enjoys a physical "bath" in a natural stream or tap.
Charging: Earth Energy. Bury it in the soil of a healthy plant to reconnect it with the vibration of growth.
Wear It:
If Jade is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: A stone of Total Awareness and Enlightenment. Unlike its "Denim" cousin, classic Lapis is intense. It stimulates the higher mind, boosts intellectual ability, and aids in the process of learning. It is a powerful "truth teller" for the soul.
Beliefs: Treasured since Predynastic Egypt and inlaid into Tutankhamun's funerary mask, lapis lazuli was traded almost exclusively from the Sar-i-Sang mines in Badakhshan, Afghanistan — one of the oldest continuously worked gem trade routes in human history, running some 7,000 years.
It was believed to lead the soul into immortality and open the "Third Eye" to see into the divine realms.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: No Water. The Pyrite (fools gold) flecks in Lapis can rust or pit if soaked. Use Selenite plates or Smoke.
Charging: Starlight. Traditionally, Lapis is associated with the night sky; leave it out under a clear, starry night to recharge its "celestial" energy.
Wear It:
If Lapis Lazuli is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: A water stone, tied to calm rather than power. Where Turquoise protects and Lapis illuminates, Larimar soothes — it's worked with for emotional ease, honest communication, and a settled kind of feminine energy tied to the sea.
Beliefs: Larimar is pectolite, and it comes from exactly one deposit on Earth, in the Dominican Republic. A Spanish priest first noted it in 1916; it was then lost for nearly sixty years until a local man and a Peace Corps volunteer rediscovered it in 1974 at the base of the Bahoruco mountains. The volunteer named it for his daughter Larissa and the Spanish word for sea, "mar." Because it comes from nowhere else on Earth and carries the exact blue of shallow Caribbean water, modern lore has attached it to Atlantis — a fragment of the lost continent, surfaced in one place and nowhere else.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: No prolonged soaking. Larimar is soft and porous, in the same range as turquoise, and can absorb more than it should sit in water. Use Selenite plates or smoke instead.
Charging: Moonlight, especially near a full moon — fitting for a stone pulled from tidal rock and tied to the sea's own rhythm.
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Metaphysical Properties:
A grounding stone for periods of change. Lava is worked with for steadiness when things are being rebuilt rather than maintained — courage, endurance, and the burning off of what is finished. It is a root-chakra stone, and it is the one people reach for when they need to be heavier rather than lighter.
Beliefs:
Lava stone is basalt: rock that was liquid, came out of the ground, and cooled fast enough to trap its own gas bubbles. It is not a crystal, and I would rather say that plainly than dress it up. What it is instead is the youngest material in this guide — most stones here took millions of years, and lava took an afternoon. Volcanic cultures have long treated it as concentrated earth force; in Hawaiian tradition the rock belongs to Pele, and there is a strong and well-kept convention against carrying it off the islands.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: No Soaking. Lava is porous — it holds water, and whatever is dissolved in that water stays behind after the water leaves. Dry smoke or sound.
Charging: Sunlight, freely. This is the one stone in the guide that has already survived worse than an afternoon on a windowsill.
A note on oils: lava's porousness is why it holds essential oil. One drop rubbed into a bead will carry a scent for a day or two. Keep the oil off the cord and off the silver.
Wear it:
If lava stone is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: Strongly connected to the Moon and Intuition. It reminds us that everything is part of a cycle of change. It is best known for calming emotional triggers and enhancing "feminine" energies like intuition, empathy, and clairvoyance.
Beliefs: The Romans, according to Pliny the Elder, believed the stone held an image of the moon inside it that waxed and waned with the sky; in Hindu tradition, it's linked instead to moonlight itself, believed to be formed from moonbeams.
It was a traditional wedding gift in India, believed to bring harmony to the couple. It is considered a "Traveler’s Stone," protecting those who travel by night or over water.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Running Water. It responds well to the "flow" of water.
Charging: Moonlight. Specifically, place it outside during a New Moon for new beginnings or a Full Moon for heightening psychic gifts.
Wear It:
If Moonstone is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties:
A heart stone, but a quiet one. Where rose quartz is worked with for love given outward, morganite is associated with compassion turned inward — patience with yourself, and the particular kind of strength it takes to stay soft. It is called on in grief and in recovery more than in romance.
Beliefs:
Morganite is beryl, which makes it a direct sibling of emerald and aquamarine: the same mineral, differently colored. Emerald takes its green from chromium, aquamarine its blue from iron, and morganite its peach-pink from manganese. It is also the newest name in this guide. Pink beryl had no identity of its own until 1910, when it was identified in Madagascar and named by the gemologist George Kunz after his patron J. P. Morgan — a banker who collected gemstones with more seriousness than most museums. A stone that spent all of history being mistaken for something else, and got its own name barely a century ago.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Water is fine. At 7.5 to 8 on the Mohs scale, morganite is the hardest stone in this guide and the one that asks the least of you. Warm water and a soft cloth.
Charging: Moonlight, or brief morning light. Keep it from real heat — the pink is heat-settled, and heat is the one thing that can move it.
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Metaphysical Properties: A powerhouse for protection and grounding. It absorbs and transforms negative energy and prevents the "drain" of personal energy during times of high stress or grief.
Beliefs: Prized since antiquity for carving — Greek and Roman artisans cut onyx into signet rings and cameos, valued for how cleanly its banded layers separated light from dark under the engraver's tool.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Brown Rice Method. Bury it in a bowl of dry brown rice for 24 hours to draw out "heavy" energy.
Charging: Place in Direct Sunlight to build its protective fire.
Wear It:
If onyx is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
The Outlaw // Hand-Stamped Onyx Shield Ring
The Dark Horse // Onyx Shield Pendant Necklace
Diverging Paths // Onyx Statement Ring
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Metaphysical Properties: A stone of Inspiration and Cosmic Consciousness. Opal is a "seducer"—it intensifies emotional states and releases inhibitions. It is highly reflective and absorbent, picking up thoughts and feelings, amplifying them, and returning them to the source.
Beliefs: Pliny the Elder praised opal above nearly every other gem, writing that it held "the fire of ruby, the brilliant purple of amethyst, and the sea-green of emerald, all shining together in incredible union." He also told of a Roman senator, Nonius, who chose exile over surrendering his opal ring to Mark Antony.
While some folklore once labeled them "unlucky," most cultures view them as stones of hope, purity, and the ability to see "the fire within."
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Gentle Sage Smoke. Most Opals contain 3% to 21% water; if they dry out, they can crack (crazing). Never use salt or harsh chemicals.
Charging: Water & Moonlight. Occasionally "charge" them by wiping them with a damp, soft cloth to maintain their water content, then place them in the light of the moon.
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Metaphysical Properties: The stone of Willpower and Prosperity. It is said to steady the nerve before a hard conversation, and to draw money and opportunity toward whoever is carrying it.
Beliefs: Named from the Greek pyr, meaning fire, because it throws sparks when struck against steel. Believed to act as a shield that reflects negativity back out rather than soaking it up — which is why it is so often strung alongside softer, more absorbent stones.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Smoke or selenite only. Never water — pyrite is iron sulfide, and water starts a rust it does not come back from.
Charging: Sunlight. Store it dry and keep it out of humid rooms.
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Metaphysical Properties: A stone of Courage and Focus. It unblocks the Solar Plexus, helping you stay grounded while manifesting goals. It is the "entrepreneur's stone."
Beliefs: Ancient Egyptian deity statues used Tiger's Eye for eyes to represent divine vision. It was worn by Roman soldiers to make them "brave in battle."
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Salt Water. A quick rinse in sea salt water clears its energetic "cat's eye."
Charging: Noon Sunlight. It thrives on solar rays.
Wear It:
If Tiger’s Eye is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: Known as the "Stone of Communication and Protection," Turquoise provides a bridge between heaven and earth. It is a strengthening stone, excellent for exhaustion, depression, or panic attacks. It empowers those who feel intimidated by public speaking.
Beliefs: One of the oldest stones in human history, it was the talisman of kings, shamans, and warriors. Native American cultures believe it holds the spirits of the sky and the sea, while Ancient Egyptians used it to represent regeneration. It is believed to change color to warn the wearer of impending danger or illness.
Persia's Nishapur region has supplied the majority of Iran's turquoise for over a thousand years, giving rise to "Persian turquoise" as a historical trade term still used by gemologists today for the material's finest grade.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Avoid Water & Chemicals. It is very porous; skin oils, perfumes, and water can permanently change its color. Use Smoke (Sage) or Sound.
Charging: Moonlight. Full moon energy is best to restore its vibrant blue-green hue.
Wear It:
If Turquoise is the stone calling to you, these are the pieces I set it in — each one forged to order, so it's made for your hand, not pulled off a shelf.
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Metaphysical Properties: A master Healer and Purifier. It grounds the heart's energy while boosting physical vitality. It is often used to dispel mental confusion and irritability.
Beliefs: Known in medieval Europe as the "martyr's stone," bloodstone was carved with Passion and crucifixion scenes; according to a legend of uncertain age, its red flecks were said to be drops of Christ's blood.
It was traditionally used as an amulet to stop hemorrhaging and increase physical strength in athletes.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Water. It loves being washed.
Charging: Sunlight. Sun exposure "re-ignites" the red iron spots within the stone.
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Metaphysical Properties: A stone of Endurance and Grounding. It provides a "slow and steady" energy that helps you finish what you start. It is excellent for "dowsing" or finding your path.
Beliefs: In ancient Egypt, the Book of the Dead specified red jasper for the tyet — the Knot of Isis — a funerary amulet invoking the goddess's protection over the dead.
It is believed to "rectify" unjust situations and provide the courage to speak up when something is wrong.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Soapy Water. It is incredibly durable.
Charging: Fire or Earth. Place near a candle (safely) or bury in the earth.
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Metaphysical Properties:
The stone of Unconditional Love. It purifies the heart and promotes self-love, friendship, and deep inner healing.
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Rose quartz has been carved and worn since Mesopotamian and ancient Egyptian times — Egyptians believed it could prevent aging, and used it in early skincare.
It is believed to smooth over arguments and bring peace to a chaotic home.
Care & Charging:
Cleansing: Water.
Charging: Moonlight. Placing it on a slab of Selenite also works beautifully to keep its pink vibration high.
The Core Concepts: Cleansing, Charging & Recharging
Before diving into the stones, it is helpful to understand the "lifecycle" of crystal care.
Cleansing (The Reset): Removing stagnant or negative energy the stone has absorbed. This returns the stone to a neutral state.
Charging (The Refill): Replenishing the stone's natural energy levels. Think of this as plugging in a battery.
Recharging: Often used interchangeably with charging, but typically refers to a deeper, longer restoration for stones that have been overworked (e.g., burying them in the earth for a week).
How to Program Your Crystals with Intention
"Programming" is simply giving the crystal a specific job to do. This focuses its broad energy into a laser-like beam aligned with your personal goal.
Follow this step-by-step ritual to lock in your intention.
1. The Setup
Wait for the Right Moment: Do this immediately after you have cleansed and charged the stone. Its energy is most receptive at this time.
Find Stillness: Sit in a quiet space where you won't be disturbed. Hold the crystal in your dominant hand (the hand you write with), which is your "sending" hand.
2. The Connection
Clear Your Mind: Close your eyes and take three deep, slow breaths. Visualize the static of the day fading away.
Focus on the Stone: Feel the weight, texture, and temperature of the crystal. Imagine a line of white light connecting your heart directly to the center of the stone.
3. The Programming
State Your Intention: clearly and specifically. You can do this aloud or in your head. The key is to use the present tense—as if the goal has already happened.
Incorrect: "I want to be less stressed."
Correct: "I am calm, centered, and free from stress."
Visualize the Outcome: While holding the intention in your mind, visualize the result. If you are programming Jade for abundance, imagine checking your bank account and seeing a growing number, or feeling the relief of paid bills. Feel the emotion of that success flowing into the stone.
4. The Seal
Lock It In: Once you feel the stone has absorbed the message (often felt as a subtle temperature change or a tingling sensation), say a closing phrase to seal the bond.
Examples: "And so it is," "Thank you," or "It is done."
Wear or Place It: Immediately place the stone where it can do its work—on your body (jewelry), in your pocket, or in a specific room (e.g., Citrine in the cash drawer, Amethyst on the nightstand).
Frequently Asked Questions about Crystal Healing & Care
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No. Many stones, such as Turquoise, Denim Lapis, and Fluorite, are porous or contain minerals that can dissolve or rust when exposed to water. Always check a stone's physical composition before soaking. Soft stones or those with high metal content (like the Pyrite in Lapis Lazuli) should be cleansed with smoke or sound instead.
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A good rule of thumb is to cleanse your stones once a month, or whenever they feel "heavy" or dull. If you are using a stone like Onyx for intense protection during a stressful time, you may want to cleanse it weekly to clear the negative energy it has absorbed.
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It depends on the stone. Solar stones like Tiger’s Eye, Onyx, and Red Jasper thrive in sunlight. however, many vibrant stones like Amethyst, Rose Quartz, and Fluorite will fade or crack if left in direct sun. Moonlight is the safest charging method for almost all crystals and is especially powerful for intuitive stones like Moonstone and Opal.
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Programming is the act of setting a specific intention for your stone. While crystals have natural properties, programming them focuses that energy on a single goal, such as "protection," "abundance," or "calm communication." This aligns the stone’s vibration with your personal needs.
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For those starting a collection, Amethyst (for peace), Rose Quartz (for love), and Tiger’s Eye (for confidence) are the most recommended. They are durable, easy to care for, and provide very clear, relatable energies for daily life.
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Yes, but be mindful of their energies. Pairing stones with similar goals—like Jade and Tiger's Eye for success—amplifies their power. However, avoid pairing high-energy "action" stones with deep "rest" stones (like Tiger's Eye with Amethyst) in the bedroom, as their conflicting vibrations may cause restlessness.